So many times now we hear that when someone is “caught with their pants down” they are suddenly diagnosed or claim to have an illness; SEXUAL ADDICTION.

I have always thought this to be a huge cop out… because you NEVER hear of anyone seeking help for it UNTIL they are caught doing it!  I have believed all along that we are simply sexual beings – sex was designed to feel ...

Here’s the continuation from my last column on swinging, which covered the who, why and how of partner swapping. I am using two terms interchangeably: ‘swinging’ and ‘lifestyle.’ In the ’50s, it was commonly called ‘wife swapping.’ These terms can include swapping of partners, threesomes, bisexual play, fetish exploration, group sex, etc.

I’ve listed questions used in ...

I’d like to clarify something from my last column on sexual orientation. There IS a difference between sexual orientation and sexual preferences. Sexual orientation is defined by whom we are attracted to. There are four general categories: asexual (no sexual desire), homosexual (same sex attraction), heterosexual (attracted to the opposite sex) and bi-sexual (attracted to both sexes). I will ...