Do you feel SEXY?  Is that feeling learned or innate?  Are there certain people who bring out your “SEXY SELF”?  What is it about them that inspires you to feel and act sexy?

Sex Butter

I discovered a new product I’d like to share with you. I found it on Twitter – reminding me that social networking DOES work. The name is catchy – SEX BUTTER. Ok – I’m a sucker and proof that sex sells. I contacted Bonnie – one of the owners of this rapidly growing company and the creator of this magical product line.

After a long and ...

     Did you ever play the game Truth Or Dare? I did. I also recall being nervous, intimidated and a little excited by it. My husband and I invented a new version. It’s called Dance or Don’t Dance. Allow me to explain.

Have you ever posed a question to your partner and then got really mad at the answer? Have you asked that fateful question, “Does this dress make me look ...

Describe your sex life in a movie title!  Leave your comments and your movie titles below.  You can stay anonymous.

When life is going along just great and everyone is feeling good and healthy, sex is an extra bonus we get to enjoy. Even if we’re a little tired we might still find the energy to arouse our partner (and ourselves) to enjoy some lovin’.

What happens when “life gets in the way”…when it creates an obstacle that sucks away all our life energy leaving nothing for a sexual escapade? There ...

Bare breasts freak Americans out! Yet like McD’s we seem to want them super sized and we sneak peeks every chance we get! If a woman’s top falls open do you turn away?

We are quite obsessed with boobies here. In 2010, in the USA, there were 296,203 Breast Augmentations performed. Up 39 percent from 2000. The statistic that really got to me was 8,525 of those were done on ...

     Sex Sells. We are sexual beings and we love all things sexy. That is why the pornography industry has larger revenues than Microsoft, Google, Amazon, eBay, Yahoo, Apple and Netflix combined, yet it has not captured the devotion of 50 percent of the population, and the primary decision makers about family spending: women. The pornography industry has made a huge mistake. They have left the needs of women out ...

If you missed the prequel to this column on condoms, you can click here and read it now. Also, a brief warning, readers: This column includes some graphic images.

Now we get down to the meat and potatoes of condom use.  The “why they do” and “why they don’ts” … the ups and downs, ins and outs.  OK, enough of ...

Condoms, like people, come in all sizes and colors.  The condom movement has become mainstream in the prevention of STDs as well as a way to reduce your risk for pregnancy.  As I started my research on this topic I was surprised by the history of condoms … for some odd reason I thought condoms were a fairly recent invention.  Boy, was I wrong.

The earliest use of male ...

One of the most important aspects of human sexuality is the physical touch. We kiss, caress, explore through touch and, when in a sexual situation, this is connected to the sex act itself. Sensual massage can be a prelude to or standalone activity of exploration, discovery, enjoyment and connection. It heightens the entire sexual experience as well as teaches patience and communication. In a sensual massage, you must consider and ...